One of the biggest markets on the internet is online dating. This venue makes a lot of money. The news about these sites spread and now 90% of the singles in this world are using cyber courting. There are so many questions about whether or not the singles on these sites are telling the truth. So how can you tell? Why do people do this?

            People lie because they don’t like conflict, they don’t want to be rejected, they want to have complete control over the situation and most of the time it is simply just to make themselves look good.

            Now how can you tell when someone is lying? I must say it is hard to see a person’s body language, mannerisms, or something even as simple as what they wear. That's why we suggest Video Chat as one way or here some ways to tell someone is lying.

1. Voice pitch

2. Voice fluctuation

3. Choice of words

4. Talking over you

5. Fast speaking

6. Defensiveness

7. Always telling you how trustworthy they are

If they are sitting right in front you, you can tell by the following:

1. Narrowing of the eyes

2. Facial Expressions

3. Not being able to sit still

4. Not being able to look at you

5. Looking beyond you or down

6. Crossing their arms and legs non stop

7. Not sitting up straight

8. Twirling their hair

9. Sweating

            The most important indication is your intuition. If you feel like something is not right, than you are probably right. While talking to them you lose your concentration and focus is a good indication as well. Your conscious automatically puts a wall up and you defenses are up is also a way of knowing.

            Whether it be the internet dating or traditional dating you have to stay focused and pay close attention to the person that you are dating. The first date is all about getting to know one another. Watch their body language and listen closely to their story. It is not always about what they are saying. You have to read in between the lines.   

            Be careful when you reading a person. It may be that they are extremely nervous. First dates can be nerve wrecking. The more you date, the better you will get at deciphering.

            Before you get too comfortable with you new found interest, take your time to get to know them. Don’t be so quick to judge a person. Try to have a good time.  You may be one your way down cyber Love Avenue.